What a bold move! I love experiments and grappling with the idea that it doesn't have to be "this way." There is freedom in risk. I can feel myself on the precipice of a major decision and currently feel strapped by the idea of waiting for others to make moves that I can respond to. It feels right currently, but also unhinged, allowing others to dictate the next steps.
I'm excited to hear what your next step is! When I'm in those situations of needing other people to move, in order to make my own changes, I often set myself a little timeline... like if they haven't adapted by X time, I'll make some changes anyway. It helps my brain so I don't feel stuck :) And is honestly still a version of the experimental framework I wrote about in this newsletter! Sending brave + bold vibes your way.
What a bold move! I love experiments and grappling with the idea that it doesn't have to be "this way." There is freedom in risk. I can feel myself on the precipice of a major decision and currently feel strapped by the idea of waiting for others to make moves that I can respond to. It feels right currently, but also unhinged, allowing others to dictate the next steps.
I'm excited to hear what your next step is! When I'm in those situations of needing other people to move, in order to make my own changes, I often set myself a little timeline... like if they haven't adapted by X time, I'll make some changes anyway. It helps my brain so I don't feel stuck :) And is honestly still a version of the experimental framework I wrote about in this newsletter! Sending brave + bold vibes your way.
So helpful. Thanks for sharing that tip!